I have a lot of issues with the idea of perfection. I mean who doesn’t? Everyone’s always trying to tell you what’s right what the exact way to be. And the matter how much you trying tell you something you don’t care with society things you don’t want to fit in then you don’t need to fit in, at the end of the day some asshole is still going to be there at the back of your mind telling you that, actually, you really do care. For me there are two voices: the first was Joey Lempa, who called me fat in the first grade; the second was actually a boy in my grade in college who id never spoken to who decided to call me Sasquatch when I walked by. Whenever I’ve had a few weeks of high confidence and self love, the wounds that their words left behind will flare up, gnawing at my mind and heart. Telling me, Making me believe that I am not good enough for the world around me. That I’m not made for a world of beauty. When these demons crawling around in you chest, pointing out everything that could possibly ever be wrong with you, it’s hard to imagine that anyone could ever see the miraculous being that is you. And that’s when the anxiety sets in.
It’s like the agonizing process of trying to fall asleep, but it’s just your insides. They’re tossing and turning, writhing, trying to be at ease and comfort, but they can’t. They want to be still. Your mind wants that rest, but it can’t have it. Because all it can think of is what is wrong with you. What is wrong with you. What. Is. Wrong. With. You.
Wait what is wrong with you?
Nothing.
You are perfect.
You are perfect.
You are perfect.
The cries if the demons in my chest are drowned out by the soothing reassurances of the voices of those who love me most, of those, who want nothing more for me to see myself the way they see me.
And why shouldn’t i?